In today’s episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, I’m thrilled to sit down with marketing guru and best-selling author Seth Godin. Seth shares his near-death experience off the coast of San Clemente—a moment that became a powerful reminder of his mission to teach and contribute. We explore his philosophy of “strategy as a philosophy of becoming” and discuss practical ways to craft personal life strategies that align with our values, whether in creativity, mental resilience, or personal growth.
In our conversation, Seth and I cover a range of ideas, from recognizing societal systems that impact our lives to overcoming societal pressures and finding meaning in service to others. Seth’s “lifeguard analogy” emphasizes the importance of focusing on helping others, and his insights are full of actionable takeaways for anyone looking to lead a more purpose-driven life.
Tune in for an episode packed with practical strategies and reflections that can help you shape a life you’re proud of.
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00:15 — Introduction: Meet Seth Godin
02:05 — Breaking Down Writer’s Block and Building Creative Confidence
06:00 — Learning Through the Lifeguard Analogy: How to Start Contributing Now
12:15 — Recognizing the Systems Shaping Our Lives
18:30 — Personal Strategy and Mental Health: How They Intersect
24:00 — The Power of Daily Creative Habits
30:40 — Real-Life Applications: Who's It For, What's It For?
36:25 — Avoiding the Trap of Playing Games We’re Meant to Lose
41:50 — How Strategy Can Help Us Cope with Modern Mental Health Challenges
47:05 — Building Authentic Networks and Finding Community
About the Podcast
I’m Dr. Robert Duff, a clinical psychologist dedicated to breaking down complex mental health topics into relatable, actionable advice. On the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, we dive deep into mental health, personal development, and practical strategies to help you thrive. Each episode features expert interviews, useful tips, and answers to listener questions, all to support your journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.
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In this episode, I sit down with Anna Runkle, better known as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, to explore her journey of healing from childhood PTSD and the unique methods she has developed to help others do the same. Anna has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide re-regulate their nervous systems and recover from deep emotional wounds using simple but powerful techniques. We dive deep into what childhood PTSD really is, how it differs from complex PTSD, and what doctors often get wrong about trauma. Anna also shares her personal story of growing up in a chaotic commune, the lasting effects of emotional neglect and abandonment, and the practical steps she used to reclaim her life and happiness.
Whether you're personally affected by trauma or seeking to support someone who is, Anna’s wisdom, tools, and personal insights provide valuable takeaways for anyone on a healing journey.
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0:00 – Introduction
2:30 – Anna’s Early Life and Growing Up in a Commune
7:15 – Understanding Childhood PTSD vs. Complex PTSD
12:45 – Coping Mechanisms and the Breaking Point
16:30 – The Effects of Gaslighting and Emotional Neglect
21:00 – The Role of Attachment Wounds and Limerence
27:30 – Trauma Healing and Nervous System Regulation
33:00 – The Power of Simple Healing Techniques
38:45 – Generational Trauma and Breaking the Cycle
43:00 – The Myth of ‘What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger’
48:15 – Finding True Healing and Becoming Your Full Self
53:00 – Practical Takeaways and Final Thoughts
In this laid-back check-in episode of the Hardcore Self Help Podcast, I take you through a series of updates and random musings. I discuss the current state of the podcast, why I decided to fire my ad agency, and the recent revival of interviews. I also share some personal projects, from working on my bipolar disorder book to collaborating with my kids on a creative game inspired by Minecraft. Throughout, I reflect on AI innovations, the challenges of balancing podcasting with life, and ways I've been keeping active, like my new rucking routine. This episode is perfect for catching up on everything happening in my world, from professional changes to hobbies and everything in between.
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00:00 Introduction
01:00 Podcast Updates
02:00 Fired Ad Agency
05:00 Interview Segment Revival
08:00 Changes in Podcast Style
09:00 Decline in Podcast Numbers and Stepping Away from Ads
11:00 Writing Update - Bipolar Book
13:00 AI Adventures - ChatGPT Voice Mode Demo
18:00 AI Applications - Notebook LM
21:00 Personal Favorites - POV Cooking Channels
22:00 Nostalgia Gaming - Pokémon Insurgence
23:00 Podcast Recommendation - Tim Ferriss Interview with Elizabeth Gilbert
24:00 Work and Mentorship Updates
26:00 Fitness Journey - Rucking
27:00 Creative Projects with Kids
28:00 Reflections on Current Events and Mental Health
29:00 Wrap-up